New Mexico Trip

Back in August, we made a trip to visit my parents in New Mexico. It's been almost 2 years since we'd been there, and I'd almost forgotten how much we love visiting New Mexico. We also chose to drive the whole 16 hours down there and back with Reiny! I was a bit worried about how she'd handle it, but she did awesome, so I can't really complain. It saved us a bunch of money over flying and we had a good time enjoying the ride down there. We stopped and visited Dave and Lauren and the kids the first night and then went to Durango, Colorado the second night. Reiny got to swim and ride her bike so that was a lot of fun. The trip home was long! We drove from my parents house all the way to Idaho Falls in one leg! Reiny did far better than I did!! In any case, we had an awesome time and loved loved loved visiting my parents. They really did cater to use. We went to the Santa Fe children's museum, the park, the Albequerque Zoo (for baby elephant, Daizy's, 1st b-day), rode the tram to the top of the mountain and had dinner at the restaurant there, and we went to Bandelier National Monument which Reiny just loved! On the way to New Mexico, we stopped at Hole In the Rock in Utah and went through the house carved into the mountain and the petting zoo. This trip was just so relaxing and fun. We also learned that Reiny can swim! She's always been too afraid to let go of us in the water to venture out on her own, but in Durango, she did it!!! I was amazed!!

Out of Control with this Hair Thing!!!

I must admit, I'm secretly so happy that I have a little girl and another one just 35 days away from being here! I love doing hair. I always have. Some of my best memories were sitting in front of the tv letting my sister do cool things to my hair, and practicing new hairdos on my dolls or My Little Ponies. I love hair!

Anyway, recently Reiny and I have been experimenting with some new hair-styles. She's getting much better about sitting still for me to try new things as long as I tell her she's going to have "princess hair" when we're done.

Here's some of my recent favorites!

This one took a little bit of time, but it lasted for 2 days, which was a bonus! The second day I pulled all her hair back into a ponytail, so it looked different.




This was fun! Reiny was really excited to try it too. I was afraid she wouldn't be able to sleep with the curlers in, but she did just fine. My mom used to do this to my hair when I was a little girl, but my hair never held the curl like Reiny's did! Eventually the curls did relax a bit and she looked more normal. I think next time I'll use the bigger curlers on her hair.






This last one I actually saw on a girl at a volleyball tournament I was at last week. It looked so cool that I just had to try it on Reiny. She really liked it too!

First Haircut

Back on June 27th I gave Reiny her 1st haircut EVER!!! I washed her hair, sat her on the counter with a bowl full of M&Ms, held my breath, and began cutting!!! I was so scared that I would make her hair so uneven, but surprisingly...it came out pretty good!

It's been a couple months now and I swear her hair is thicker and healthier than it's ever looked!

Here's some before and after pictures.

Family Remembrance

Last weekend Jordan and I got to be involved in something very special regarding his family history, and until Aunt Pat sends us the pictures she took of the event, I thought I'd blog about some of the details while they are fresh in my mind.

Jordan's great-great grandfather, Rock Vizina was married to a young lady named Eliza Dishno. They had 3 children together, and unfortunately, just 2 days before Christmas in 1883, Eliza and the youngest of the children David (2 years old) were killed in an avalanche about 10 miles south of where Jordan and I live now. Rock was working in the mines at the time and the oldest two children were pushed out of the little log cabin by the snow and miraculously survived. Unfortunately, Eliza and David were buried inside. She was only 24 years old at the time. They were buried at the base of Spring Mountain, about 3 miles south of the town of
Gilmore, Idaho.

This last Saturday, relatives from every branch of Rock's line gathered from as far as Michigan to come and place a permanent headstone on the graves of Eliza and David. It was amazing to see this event. It was amazing to see the legacy that Rock left behind. All that remained of the original wooden headstones was...well, nothing but a wood plank. In the 1920s someone carved new headstones out of wood for the mother and son and placed them on the graves, but only David's was somewhat legible, and the date was actually incorrect.

Just for my own info...Rock remarried a young lady named Angela Navarro and they had 10 children together. Their 3rd child, Helen Josephine, was the mother of Rosemary Coleman, Jordan's grandmother, Jame's mother.

Family history can be so fun and interesting when you dive in and actually have some of the living relatives that can share stories from the time periods you are studying. Such a wonderful weekend.

Reiny had fun gathering wildflowers to place on the new marble headstone...so cute!

Missing My "ME TIME"

Well, it's official...Reiny has given up her naps altogether! How is this possible? 3 weeks ago she was napping beautifully...not just beautifully, but beyond what was normal! I would feed her lunch, take her potty, then just lay her down in bed and walk out...BOOM...out like a light for 3 HOURS!!!

Now, for the last 3 weeks I have been desperately grasping at straws trying to get her to sleep for even just an hour during the day...NO DICE!!! She's done...bird-finger, Mom...I've got more important things to do (apparently that includes bouncing up and down on my bed and taking off all my clothes and throwing them out of the crib).

I guess I should be grateful that this most-difficult adjustment has come now as opposed to 3 1/2 months from now when I'm trying to deal with a newborn, but still...she's only 2 1/2 years old! My sister's 6 year old still takes naps during the day! Beyond that...I NEED NAPS DURING THE DAY!!!

So here's my plea...if any of you wise mothers have any suggestions for me that are more helpful than my husband's ("just get over it...she's not tired") then please let me know. I've tried having more activity in the mornings, less activity, book reading, less sugar intake...pretty much everything I can think of short of drugging her to sleep, which at this point seems like a viable option. If not...I'll learn to deal with my very active and emotional child's new schedule. With any luck, I won't need medicated for this!

How...just HOW...

am I supposed to do this?

Today is not the best day. Perhaps blogging with the hope that someone will have some words of inspiration will be enough to pull me out of my fits of sobs and on to happier things.

How am I supposed to be a wife, mother, and business partner? The roles I'm forced to take on sometimes makes me feel like I'm not doing any of them justice.

As a wife, I rarely have a suitable lunch or dinner prepared for my family. The house is neat and tidy, but the dust and carpet stains keep thickening.

As a mother, I typically spend most of my time in "survival mode" just making sure Reiny's basic needs are met. Is she fed, is she clean (no...well that can wait 'til tomorrow)? I'm not the fun mom that arranges cool summer projects and fun and educational learning activities for my 2 1/2 year old. I'm lucky if bedtime routine starts early enough that we can actually read a few books together.

As a business partner, I spend most of my time in the office now, arranging shipments, ordering parts, filing monthly and quarterly and even yearly taxes, juggling the finances when the amount of incoming bills outnumber the amount of customers who feel it necessary to pay by the deadline. I'm not out in the field anymore...working where I love to work. I won't be bailing hay this summer, because I'm a mom and someone needs to stay with the child while she sleeps. I'm the one on the phone arguing with the shipping people about the fact that my parts were supposed to be here last week and they're still not here!

Meanwhile, my daughter is at my feet sobbing because she just wants mommy to play dolls or dress-up or even just hold her for one second. My husband comes in the door at the end of the day, exhausted and disgusted with how his day went, and looking around there's no indication that I've managed to accomplish anything with my day...dinner's not fixed, the shipment's still not here, and his daughter's not been bathed in a week.

Now here I am, 5 months into my 2nd pregnancy just picturing what this time next year will bring...even less time with my husband as he attempts to pick up the slack for his wife who, believe it or not, is not super woman, a 3 1/2 year old who just wants Mommy to play dress up, and an 8 month old crying because she hasn't had her diaper changed in a month. I still won't be the best wife, mother, or business partner I could be because that's too many roles to fill well.

Where do I let go? I can't stop being a mom or wife, and if I quit helping with the business then Jordan will certainly find himself in jail because there's no way he has any idea the amount of paperwork it takes each month to keep him legal.

I need a miracle...

It's nothin but Pink out there!

Last Thursday Jordan and I went to the big doctor's appointment! We had the ultrasound and found out that yes, we are indeed having another girl!! I must admit, I'm relieved! Thoughts of "I know girls, I can do this" fill my head. I know Jordan's a bit disappointed and worries that we may never get a little boy, but this just solidifies in my mind that baby girl #2 probably won't be our last now! Heavenly Father has a very sly way of insuring parents don't give up once they've had one of each gender. I was certain that if this was a boy we were DONE, but now...I feel we need to try at least one more time for that little boy...things work out how they should!

In any case, I'm excited for girl #2 (whom I like to joke will be named "Stormy" since we already have a "Reiny"). At least I won't need to buy anything new besides diapers!!!

Photography Sessions

Please don't miss this! My sister-in-law will be in Leadore for 2 weeks and is an outstanding photographer! She's doing sessions here at such reasonable prices...please take an opportunity to update your family photos or have your senior pictures done! She'll travel to whatever location you want! Thanks!!!

Click on the picture above to read the information!

The Real Meaning behind "Because I Said So!"

I had a real Mommy "ahh ha" moment today. Do you realize how often we tell our kids to do or not do something without explaining ourselves? Most of the time the underlying reason involves eminent danger or hurt feelings or even just to save time later. For instance, "Clean up your room!", "But why, Mommy?" Rather than explain ourselves we say "because I said so" when in actuality there is usually a better explanation such as "because the dog is in the house and if she sees that room full of toys your new babydoll will look like a World War II victim. Then you'll be crying and upset and nothing I say or do will ever put the arms and legs back on that doll." It takes too long to explain ourselves in this way, so instead we say "because I said so." However, to a child, that has no real meaning. "So what? Just because you said so? That's just plain rediculous...if mommy can't come up with a better reason than that...I'll just do it anyway." I imagine that's how Reiny felt today when she deliberately disobeyed an important instruction I gave her.

Here's the story: Reiny wanted to play outside this evening. Fine. Please put on some socks and shoes. Nope. Ok, not going to fight you on this...just stay on the patio. She played well on the patio for a while and then of course, I had to go in to use the bathroom. Before I left I said, "Stay on the patio! Don't go anywhere else!" To which Reiny replied "Why?" In my hurry to make it to the bathroom before wetting myself I said "Because I said so!" Had I made my realization earlier, perhaps I could have saved her from what happened next. While in the bathroom, Reiny wandered off after the cat...down through the driveway (which is all rock and no cement), around the garage, and into the back field behind the garage. Low and behold, waiting for her there was a nice, big bush of stinging nettle, and yes...she was still barefoot! I came back out just in time to hear her hair-raising shrieks of pain! I run to the back of the garage and scoop her up. We head into the house and I frantically search for a remedy for stinging nettle on the internet. I make the suggested paste out of baking soda and water and cover her injured foot in the goop. We wrap it with Saran wrap and wait for the stinging to disapate.

Well, perhaps if I had actually explained myself a little better to begin with by answering her "why" with "because there are sharp rocks and sticks as well and ouchy bushes out there that could really hurt you and I would hate for you to have to stop playing to sit on the counter for an hour with your foot wrapped in goop, while you cried your eyes out" she would have stayed on the patio. Instead we got this:

It's time to catch up...again!

I do so well writing on this blog for like 2 weeks, and then...the task of uploading photos seems so daunting I procrastinate until the task really IS overwhelming. It's time...I guess! Ok...where to start? We're done with calving! Yay! Everything went really well too. It was so nice having Chase and Megan there everyday. They are the real champions this season, because when things started to slow down at the end and Jordan and I needed to focus on our business and the quickly approaching irrigation season, Chase and Megan stayed strong watching the cows and doing the work by themselves. We owe them a lot! The weather this Spring is surprisingly wet, considering our mild Winter. We had rain for about 3 weeks straight, then a break of sunshine for 2 days, then the rain returned. Right now as I'm writing this I'm listening to the most magnificent downpour pounding on my tin roof. It's lovely...so so so lovely. Most people get depressed by rain. I'm the opposite. Rain means wet ground and crops which means people are less inclined to call at 2 am when their pivots shut off and they can't figure out why (unless your my father-in-law...all the rain in the world wouldn't calm that man's nerves this time of year!) In any case, the fields are green, and I get the joy of listening to the rain on my roof. However, dispite the rain, Jordan's still been pretty busy this Spring. As soon as he finishes one job and says "well, it looks like we're out of work for a while" the phone rings and something else comes up! I can't complain. The work is needed...desperately needed! With all the investments we've been making in the powerplant, our savings has hit an all-time low! So, rather than be ungrateful and disappointed that I don't see Jordan much anymore, I'll thank the Lord for the blessings of work. Well, next topic. If you haven't guessed from the pregnancy counter at the top of this blog, I'm pregnant again. We're due November 16th and in about a week we get to find out the sex (hopefully!). I'd been feeling pretty crappy for the first 16 weeks and then the pukiness started to subside. However, my doctor put me on antibiotics for a bladder infection I didn't know I had, and I went right back to the pukiness. I'm off the pills now, but to top everything off...now I think I have the flu! I just can't remember what it's like to feel normal...this may be our last as a result of all this! The thought of having a second kid scares me to death! I don't know what the difference is, but with Reiny I was just so excited to become a mommy, and with this one I just feel overwhelmed. It makes me feel bad for this little baby. Every new milestone I hit just reminds me we're getting closer to the due date and then I just get scared. The baby started kicking on June 2nd (my mom's b-day). I feel it almost everyday now. You would think that would excite me, but I just keep thinking...holy crap...I'm gonna have a newborn in 5 months! Oh well, maybe things will change after I see the ultrasound...I'm just praying everything looks normal! Easter here was cold! We got snow for like the first time all winter so Reiny got to hunt eggs in the snow. She didn't seem to care very much as long as she got candy. She's too polite for an easter egg hunt, so before next year I'm going to teach her to push and scream "If you know what's good for you, you'll give me that egg!" Our friend Quin came up to visit and helped us color eggs. The poop-colored one was his contribution! Oh, and just a word to the wise...don't get the egg-dye kit that has glitter! Such a huge mistake! Jordan says that should have been obvious to me! He says picking an egg-dye kit with glitter is like saying "yes, I'd like the stripper with the glitter, cus I want to go home looking like I'm covered in fairy-dust...the wife won't question that at all!!" Sometimes his humor makes you question his faithfulness! (not really!) Reiny and I just got back from visiting my mom and sister in Salt Lake City. We both had an amazing time. We went to the aquarium and saw the new penguin exhibit and the zoo to see the baby elephant. We also went swimming and had dinner at the Mayan Restaurant where we got to watch a diving show! One of the male divers thought Reiny was just the cutest little girl and came over to give her a high-five! We also took Reiny bowling for the very first time, and she won! She bowled a 96 with 2 spares! It was so funny. At one point, she got her finger mashed by her ball and the next ball coming out of the return. She was sobbing, but didn't want to give up her turn so she carried her ball over to the ball ramp, set it on, and pushed it off. All the while, crying and sobbing uncontrollably. She watched her ball go down the alley and hit the pins and she turned, jumped up and down, clapped her hands and sobbed...all at the same time! It was just too hilarious!

Well, that about sums things up for us. I'll try to remember that I can blog without adding pictures and maybe I'll be a bit more diligent in keeping things updated. Maybe I'll even manage to get Jordan to write something on here...yeah right!